threadexception enhancements #5626

Job	Run time
package	32s
build (windows-py39-unittestextras)	19m 23s
build (windows-py39-pluggy)	6m 24s
build (windows-py39-xdist)	6m 50s
build (windows-py310)	6m 42s
build (windows-py311)	18m 0s
build (windows-py312)	16m 27s
build (windows-py313)	15m 49s
build (ubuntu-py39-lsof-numpy-pexpect)	22m 56s
build (ubuntu-py39-pluggy)	5m 18s
build (ubuntu-py39-freeze)	42s
build (ubuntu-py39-xdist)	5m 7s
build (ubuntu-py310-xdist)	5m 26s
build (ubuntu-py311)	18m 43s
build (ubuntu-py312)	21m 36s
build (ubuntu-py313-pexpect)	19m 57s
build (ubuntu-pypy3-xdist)	7m 56s
build (macos-py39)	5m 20s
build (macos-py310)	4m 27s
build (macos-py312)	4m 14s
build (macos-py313)	3m 51s
build (doctesting)	49s
build (plugins)	58s
check	4s
	3h 37m 31s

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