chore(NODE-6272): update dev dependencies and add dependabot config #107

Job	Run time
stable - x86_64-apple-darwin - node@20	2m 13s
stable - x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@20	2m 18s
stable - x86_64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@20	5m 4s
stable - x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@20	4m 47s
stable - aarch64-apple-darwin - node@20	2m 5s
stable - aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@20	7m 2s
stable - aarch64-unknown-linux-musl - node@20	2m 35s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@12	37s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@14	29s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@12	26s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@16	34s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@12	57s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@14	22s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@14	41s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@18	41s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@16	35s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@16	1m 48s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@20	1m 18s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@18	24s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@18	2m 6s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@12	44s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@20	57s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@20	1m 12s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@14	49s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-musl - node@	46s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@16	40s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@18	47s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@20	39s
Publish	37s
	44m 13s

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