chore(NODE-6272): update dev dependencies and add dependabot config #105

Job	Run time
stable - x86_64-apple-darwin - node@20	2m 3s
stable - x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@20	2m 29s
stable - x86_64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@20	1m 59s
stable - x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@20	1m 47s
stable - aarch64-apple-darwin - node@20	2m 57s
stable - aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@20	1m 56s
stable - aarch64-unknown-linux-musl - node@20	1m 59s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@12	18s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@12	34s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@14	24s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@12	21s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@14	45s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-musl - node@	22s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@16	12s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@16	1m 6s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@14	23s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@18	12s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@16	37s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@18	1m 7s
Test bindings on Linux-x64-gnu - node@20	19s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@18	37s
Test bindings on aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu - node@20	26s
Test bindings on x86_64-unknown-linux-musl - node@20	15s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@12	37s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@14	40s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@16	46s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@18	35s
Test bindings on x86_64-pc-windows-msvc - node@20	35s
Publish	11s
	26m 32s

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