perf: give a major rework on how our deleting works #188

Job	Run time
build	18s
linting	18s
cross-testing (stable, ubuntu-latest, default)	16s
cross-testing (stable, ubuntu-latest, with-serde)	58s
cross-testing (stable, windows-latest, default)	1m 13s
cross-testing (stable, windows-latest, with-serde)	1m 28s
cross-testing (stable, macos-latest, default)	20s
cross-testing (stable, macos-latest, with-serde)	17s
cross-testing (nightly, ubuntu-latest, default)	19s
cross-testing (nightly, ubuntu-latest, with-serde)	24s
cross-testing (nightly, windows-latest, default)	1m 39s
cross-testing (nightly, windows-latest, with-serde)	1m 35s
cross-testing (nightly, macos-latest, default)	15s
cross-testing (nightly, macos-latest, with-serde)	17s
cross-testing (1.41, ubuntu-latest, default)	24s
cross-testing (1.41, ubuntu-latest, with-serde)	15s
cross-testing (1.41, windows-latest, default)	3m 57s
cross-testing (1.41, windows-latest, with-serde)	1m 35s
cross-testing (1.41, macos-latest, default)	17s
cross-testing (1.41, macos-latest, with-serde)	16s
	16m 21s

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