enhance: Use Arrow cdata to avoid proto serde for delete

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Related to #35303
Previous PR: #37018
this PR fix misuse of smart ptr and update code due to base branching

Reference https://arrow.apache.org/docs/format/CDataInterface.html

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Attention: Patch coverage is 0% with 104 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 69.18%. Comparing base (56c5b66) to head (a59828d).
Report is 4 commits behind head on master.

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internal/core/src/segcore/segment_c.cpp	0.00%	14 Missing ⚠️
internal/core/src/segcore/Utils.cpp	0.00%	9 Missing ⚠️

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