enhance: [10kcp] Reduce GetRecoveryInfo calls

[bigsheeper]

1. Introduce a data view mechanism for DataCoord, attempting to update each collection's data view periodically.
2. QueryCoord maintains a cache of data view versions. Before batch-fetching recovery info, it retrieves all versions and only fetches recovery info for collections with updated versions.
3. Return DataCoord's current data view when fetching RecoverInfo.

issue: #37743, #37630

pr: #37863

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