feat: Implement Spark-compatible CAST from String to Date (apache#383)

* support casting DateType in comet

* Use NaiveDate methods for parsing dates and remove regex

* remove macro for date parsing

* compute correct days since epoch.

* Run String to Date test without fuzzy test

* port spark string to date processing logic for cast

* put in fixes for clippy and scalafix issues.

* handle non digit characters when parsing segement bytes.

* add note on compatability

* add negative tests for String to Date test

* simplify byte digit check

* propagate error correctly when a date cannot be parsed

* add fuzz test with unsupported date filtering

* add test for string array cast to date

* use UNIX_EPOCH constant from NaiveDateTime

* fix cargo clippy error - collapse else if

* do not run string to date test on spark-3.2

* do not run string to date test on spark-3.2

* add failing fuzz test dates to tests and remove failing fuzz test

* remove unused date pattern

* add specific match for casting dictionary to date

(cherry picked from commit a7272b9)