feat: auto refresh ReadOnlyAttach-ed table schema

[dantengsky]

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Summary

auto-refresh ReadOnlyAttach-ed table schema.

• introduce the new Trait TableInfoRefresher

  Table engines may register their impls of TableInfoRefresher to storage factory

• fuse table engine's impl of TableInfoRefresher will refresh schema by syncing the latest schema from the attached storage, if the table is created in the "attach read-only" way.

• during alter table add/remove column, a new table snapshot will be generated and kept in the object storage

  so that the latest schema could be fetched without accessing the meta server (which is infeasible if the table is read-only attached).

  related test cases are tweaked accordingly.

Fixes #13559

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