reimplement fix for akka/pekko cluster #835

Job	Run time
JDK 8 / Scala 2.12.x	57m 56s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster/test distributed-data/test cluster-tools/test cluster-metri...	6m 9s
JDK 11 / Scala 2.12.x	1h 10m 39s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster-sharding/test)	9m 18s
Pekko Cluster Metrics Test with Sigar	7m 2s
JDK 17 / Scala 2.12.x	56m 9s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster-typed/test cluster-sharding-typed/test)	8m 52s
JDK 21 / Scala 2.12.x	59m 38s
JDK 8 / Scala 2.13.x	58m 4s
JDK 11 / Scala 2.13.x	1h 9m 53s
JDK 17 / Scala 2.13.x	56m 42s
JDK 21 / Scala 2.13.x	1h 0m 35s
JDK 8 / Scala 3.3.x	56m 58s
JDK 11 / Scala 3.3.x	1h 6m 25s
JDK 17 / Scala 3.3.x	57m 1s
JDK 21 / Scala 3.3.x	56m 57s
	12h 38m 18s

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