reimplement fix for akka/pekko cluster #820

Job	Run time
JDK 8 / Scala 2.12.x	57m 54s
JDK 11 / Scala 2.12.x	1h 10m 57s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster/test distributed-data/test cluster-tools/test cluster-metri...	6m 42s
JDK 17 / Scala 2.12.x	56m 44s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster-sharding/test)	10m 5s
JDK 21 / Scala 2.12.x	59m 20s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster-typed/test cluster-sharding-typed/test)	9m 39s
JDK 8 / Scala 2.13.x	58m 15s
JDK 11 / Scala 2.13.x	1h 8m 59s
JDK 17 / Scala 2.13.x	57m 40s
Pekko Cluster Metrics Test with Sigar	7m 47s
JDK 21 / Scala 2.13.x	1h 0m 38s
JDK 8 / Scala 3.3.x	58m 13s
JDK 11 / Scala 3.3.x	1h 5m 52s
JDK 17 / Scala 3.3.x	58m 7s
JDK 21 / Scala 3.3.x	59m 45s
	12h 46m 37s

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