[FLINK-36813][cdc-connectors][mysql] support mysql sync part columns

[JNSimba]

Background
In some scenarios, MySQL synchronization only expects to synchronize specified fields instead of all fields in the table.

1. The user only has the permission for some fields in MySQL
2. The user has too many fields in a single table and only wants to synchronize some fields, for example, here flink-cdc在全量阶段使用了SELECT * FROM TABLE读取数据。 #3058

Current situation
For the incremental stage, you only need to configure the column.include.list property of debezium to support the synchronization of some fields in the incremental stage, refer to: https://debezium.io/documentation/reference/1.9/connectors/mysql.html#mysql-property-column-include-list

For the full snapshot stage, * is currently used in MySqlSnapshotSplitReadTask, refer to

if (isScanningData) {
return buildSelectWithRowLimits(
tableId, limitSize, "*", Optional.ofNullable(condition), Optional.empty()); 

Solution
We can refer to debezium RelationalSnapshotChangeEventSource, The user configures column.include.list, and then captures the specific columns in MySqlSnapshotSplitReadTask, and splices them when constructing Scan SQL.

[JNSimba]

@leonardBang @ruanhang1993 PTAL, Thanks