feat: Improve CometHashJoin statistics

[planga82]

Which issue does this PR close?

Closes #308 .

Rationale for this change

Add all statistics HashJoinExec datafusion node provides.

What changes are included in this PR?

All available metrics

/// Total time for collecting build-side of join
pub(crate) build_time: metrics::Time
/// Number of batches consumed by build-side
pub(crate) build_input_batches: metrics::Count,
/// Number of rows consumed by build-side
pub(crate) build_input_rows: metrics::Count,
/// Memory used by build-side in bytes
pub(crate) build_mem_used: metrics::Gauge,
/// Total time for joining probe-side batches to the build-side batches
pub(crate) join_time: metrics::Time,
/// Number of batches consumed by probe-side of this operator
pub(crate) input_batches: metrics::Count,
/// Number of rows consumed by probe-side this operator
pub(crate) input_rows: metrics::Count,
/// Number of batches produced by this operator
pub(crate) output_batches: metrics::Count,
/// Number of rows produced by this operator
pub(crate) output_rows: metrics::Count

How are these changes tested?

Unit testing and manual testing

[kazuyukitanimura]

nit: I think these two confs are enabled in CometTestBase. Not sure if anything special about restating here.

[viirya]

Yea, can be removed, I think.

[planga82]

Changed, thank you!

[viirya]

Merged. Thanks @planga82