chore: bump to akka 2.10.0-M1, align with changes from upstream

[sebastian-alfers]

• bump akka to 2.10.0-M1 and other dependencies
• slick to not exclude slf4j anymore
• drop scala.collection.JavaConverters
• drop akka.dispatch.ExecutionContexts
• drop scala.compat.java8

[sebastian-alfers]

Hem, failures with SqlServer:

An infinite loop of:

WARNING: ConnectionID:5 ClientConnectionId: f3933fcd-d5de-48b1-8286-3d70d2ae211e Prelogin error: host localhost port 1433 Error reading prelogin response: Connection reset ClientConnectionId:f3933fcd-d5de-48b1-8286-3d70d2ae211e
Sep 20, 2024 4:49:16 AM com.microsoft.sqlserver.jdbc.SQLServerConnection Prelogin
WARNING: ConnectionID:6 ClientConnectionId: e112f190-4787-471c-a53d-f5f6d690e8c8 Prelogin error: host localhost port 1433 Error reading prelogin response: Connection reset ClientConnectionId:e112f190-4787-471c-a53d-f5f6d690e8c8
Sep 20, 2024 4:49:16 AM com.microsoft.sqlserver.jdbc.SQLServerConnection Prelogin
WARNING: ConnectionID:5 ClientConnectionId: f260c3ac-7d68-477d-9cf2-0000f540a55d Prelogin error: host localhost port 1433 Error reading prelogin response: Connection reset ClientConnectionId:f260c3ac-7d68-477d-9cf2-0000f540a55d
Sep 20, 2024 4:49:17 AM com.microsoft.sqlserver.jdbc.SQLServerConnection Prelogin
WARNING: ConnectionID:6 ClientConnectionId: a7bd75b2-02e8-4950-9c43-37bbe9247e8b Prelogin error: host localhost port 1433 Error reading prelogin response: Connection reset ClientConnectionId:a7bd75b2-02e8-4950-9c43-37bbe9247e8b
Sep 20, 2024 4:49:17 AM com.microsoft.sqlserver.jdbc.SQLServerConnection Prelogin
WARNING: ConnectionID:5 ClientConnectionId: 299cb40c-e2b4-419c-b796-1534a9b5ba1c Prelogin error: host localhost port 1433 Error reading prelogin response: Connection reset ClientConnectionId:299cb40c-e2b4-419c-b796-1534a9b5ba1c
Sep 20, 2024 4:49:18 AM com.microsoft.sqlserver.jdbc.SQLServerConnection Prelogin
WARNING: ConnectionID:6 ClientConnectionId: 13287e35-d317-45a0-8f2d-226b83b207ec Prelogin error: host localhost port 1433 Unexpected end of prelogin response after 0 bytes read
Sep 20, 2024 4:49:18 AM com.microsoft.sqlserver.jdbc.SQLServerConnection Prelogin
WARNING: ConnectionID:5 ClientConnectionId: fba8954c-08d3-42f3-ace4-e5506043ec8d Prelogin error: host localhost port 1433 Error reading prelogin response: Connection reset ClientConnectionId:fba8954c-08d3-42f3-ace4-e5506043ec8d

As well as:

[info] akka.persistence.jdbc.integration.SqlServerJournalDaoStreamMessagesMemoryTest *** ABORTED *** (6 minutes, 0 seconds)
[info]   java.sql.SQLTransientConnectionException: slick.db - Connection is not available, request timed out after 180001ms.
[info]   at com.zaxxer.hikari.pool.HikariPool.createTimeoutException(HikariPool.java:696)
...
[info]   at akka.persistence.jdbc.query.SqlServerCleaner.beforeAll$(QueryTestSpec.scala:401)
[info]   at akka.persistence.jdbc.integration.SqlServerJournalDaoStreamMessagesMemoryTest.beforeAll(JournalDaoStreamMessagesMemoryTest.scala:23)
[info]   at org.scalatest.BeforeAndAfterAll.liftedTree1$1(BeforeAndAfterAll.scala:212)
...
[info]   at java.base/java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:829)
[info]   Cause: com.microsoft.sqlserver.jdbc.SQLServerException: The TCP/IP connection to the host localhost, port 1433 has failed. Error: "The driver received an unexpected pre-login response. Verify the connection properties and check that an instance of SQL Server is running on the host and accepting TCP/IP connections at the port. This driver can be used only with SQL Server 2005 or later.". ClientConnectionId:d574cac1-be1b-4978-a352-46cd48808b12

[sebastian-alfers]

Same error locally, but also on main, so 🤷

[sebastian-alfers]

The failing test for SqlServer was disabled in #861.