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<li><a href="#introduction">Introduction</a></li>
<li><a href="#coming-out">Coming Out</a></li>
<li><a href="#pronouns">Pronouns</a></li>
<li><a href="#name">Name</a></li>
<li><a href="#appearance">Appearance</a></li>
<li><a href="#tucking-tuck-tape-and-gaffs">Tucking and Gaffs</a></li>
<li><a href="#binding-and-packers">Binders and Packers</a></li>
<li><a href="#voice">Voice</a></li>
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<span><p>Contents</p></span>
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## Pronouns

&emsp; It is common for transgender and gender noncomforming people to change their pronouns. Some may change them entirely, for example, <span class="example-text-block">she/her &rarr; he/him</span> or <span class="example-text-block"> he/him &rarr; they/them</span>. Some may use a combination, for example, <span class="example-text-block">she/they</span>, <span class="example-text-block">she/he</span>, or <span class="example-text-block">he/they/she</span>. Some may also decide to use any pronouns, no pronouns, or they might not change them at all. Neopronouns such as <span class="example-text-block">xe/xem/xirs</span> or <span class="example-text-block">fae/faer/faers</span> are also used by some as well, but they are not very common. It is up to you if you want to change your pronouns and what to change them to. Your decision is not permanent and if you end up not liking the pronouns you chose you can totally change them again. If you aren't sure about using certain pronouns, and feel safe to do so, you can ask people to try using those pronouns to see if you like being called them. Even if you are sure, it can still be very euphoric to be called the pronouns you want to be called. There are many online communities for transgender and gender nonconforming people that would be happy to help you try out pronouns as well.
&emsp; It is common for transgender and gender noncomforming people to change their pronouns. Some may change them entirely, for example, <span class="example-text-block">she/her &rarr; he/him</span> or <span class="example-text-block"> he/him &rarr; they/them</span>. Some may use a combination, for example, <span class="example-text-block">she/they</span>, <span class="example-text-block">she/he</span>, or <span class="example-text-block">he/they/she</span>. Some may also decide to use any pronouns, no pronouns, or they might not change them at all. Neopronouns such as <span class="example-text-block">xe/xem/xirs</span> or <span class="example-text-block">fae/faer/faers</span> are also used by some as well, but they are not very common. It is up to you if you want to change your pronouns and what to change them to. Your decision is not permanent and if you end up not liking the pronouns you chose you can totally change them again. If you aren't sure about using certain pronouns, and feel safe to do so, you can ask people to try using those pronouns to see if you like being called them. Even if you are sure, it can still be very euphoric to be called the pronouns you want to be called. There are many online communities for transgender and gender nonconforming people that would be happy to help you try out pronouns as well.

## Name

&emsp; Some transgender and gender noncomforming people choose to change their name and some don't. Some may look online at lists of names, ask their parents to pick their name, pick a name from their favorite video game or movie, or choose a name that they heard long ago that has stuck with them. There are many ways to pick a name, or maybe you don't pick a new name at all, and whatever decision you make is completely valid. Your decision isn't permanent and if you decide you don't like the name you have anymore, you can choose a different one. If you do decide to change your name, it is common to end up with multiple names you can't decide between. To narrow down your list, try out each name to see how much you like it. There are many ways to try out names, such as using them in a video game, on a delivery address, or by asking friends and family to use them. Of course, only do what you feel safe and comfortable doing. There are also many online communities for transgender and gender nonconforming people that would be happy to help you try out names as well.


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<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eoq2e4h_avs">How to Give Yourself a Name</a>
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&emsp; If you also want to change you name legally, there is a section on that <a class="purple-link" href="/legal-transitioning">here</a>.

## Appearance

&emsp; It is common for transgender and gender noncomforming people to change at least some aspect of their appearance. That could be clothes, hair, accessories, makeup, etc. However, it is not a requirement for transgender and gender noncomforming people to change their appearance if they don't want to. Additionally, just because someone is transgender or gender noncomforming, it doesn't mean they have to give up traditionally masculine or feminine things they enjoyed beforehand.

&emsp; If you aren't sure if you want to change part of your appearance or what to change it to, that is fine and it is completely normal to experiment with clothes, makeup, hair, etc. Thrift stores are good for finding cheaper clothes that you can try out to see if you like them or not, or you could just window shop. If you want to try out makeup, mascara and lip gloss are any easy place to start. You may also be interested in gaffs and tucking, which are typically used by transfeminine people, or in binders and packers which are typically used by transmasculine people.

### Tucking, Tuck Tape, and Gaffs

#### What is Tucking and How to Tuck

&emsp; If you are wanting to achieve a smooth appearance down there, there a few ways to do it without surgery. A very common way is tucking. Tucking is done by pushing the testicles up into the inguinal canals (there is one on each side of the groin). The inguinal canals are where the testicles descend from, and they sometimes enter the canals naturally, such as when they are cold. Once the testicles are pushed into the inguinal canals, the penis is pushed down and tucked back. In order to keep it in place, tucking tape, tight underwear, or a gaff are used. Tucking should not be painful. If it is, stop tucking and don't try again until it stops hurting.

#### Tuck Tape

&emsp; Tuck tape is a special type of tape used to secure a tuck. Do <b>not</b> use packing tape, duct tape, etc. Only use tucking tape or tape intended to be used on sensitive skin areas, such as the groin. Tucking tape is a disposable item and can only be used a few times at most before it looses stickiness and becomes useless, and it also needs to be removed in order to pee, making it undesirable for long term use. However, it may be desirable by some for occasional short term use.

#### Gaffs

&emsp; Gaffs are a special type of underwear that helps compress the groin and smooth it out. People tend to find them to be the most comfortable way to secure a tuck, however gaffs usually cost more than tucking tape or regular underwear. Some gaffs are also able to compress the groin enough that it is not necessary to tuck while wearing one.

### Binding and Packers

#### Binders

&emsp; If you are wanting to achieve a flat chest, there are a few ways to go about it without surgery. One of the methods is to use a binder, which is a compressive undergarment used to flatten the chest. If you decide to use a binder, it is important to get one that is the right size. Since binders compress the chest, you should <b>not</b> wear them for over 8 hours at a time, sleep in them, or exercise in them. When you first get a binder, you may want to only wear it for a few hours at a time so your body gets used to it. Binding should not be painful or cause difficulty breathing. If you experience either of those, remove your binder as soon as possible, and use a binder a size up instead.

#### Binding Tape

&emsp; Another way to achieve a flatter chest is to use binding tape. Binding tape is applied to the skin, and can typically be worn for multiple days at a time. It is important that you use binding tape, or other tape meant to applied on sensitive skin. Do <b>not</b> use packing tape, duct tape, etc., as they are not meant for skin use and could potentially harm you. If you are interested in binding tape, check out this <a class="purple-link" href="https://www.gendergp.com/trans-tape-how-to-use-chest-binding-alternative/">guide</a> <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20240216182250/https://www.gendergp.com/trans-tape-how-to-use-chest-binding-alternative/"><span class="tooltip"><img style="display:inline; vertical-align:bottom; max-width:1.5rem;" src="../icons/archive.svg" alt="archive" /><span class="tooltip-text">View on the Internet Archive</span></span></a> on it.

#### Packers

&emsp; Packers are a prothestic that is placed inside underwear to add a buldge. They are typically kept in place by using a strap or special underwear with a pouch. Many packers look like actual penises, but there are also some that are just a smooth shape. Most packers are soft and mimic a flaccid penis, but there are also rigid ones that mimic an erect penis. Rigid packers are typically used for sex, while soft packers are typically for casual wear. There are also STP (Stand to Pee) packers that have a hole in them that allows the wearer to pee with them on. In addition to those packers, it is also possible to make DIY packers by using a bundle of socks.

## Voice

&emsp; For those not planning on or are unable to medically transition, it is possible to feminize, masculinize, or androgynize your voice with voice training. If you are planning on medically transitioning, masculinizing hormone therapy will result in masculinization of the voice, however feminizing hormone therapy will not feminize the voice. There is also vocal feminization surgery, which can be done on it's own or used in tandem with voice training. Vocal masculinization surgery is also available, but it's not very common, as masculinizing hormone therapy already masculinizes the voice. Both surgeries are not at all necessary to get a feminine, masculine, or androgynous voice. If you are interested in reading more about those surgeries, check out the <a class="purple-link" href="/medical-transitioning">medical transitioning</a> section.

### What is Voice Training

&emsp; Voice training refers to the process of utilizing voice training techniques to change the sound of your voice. There are three primary aspects of voice that people modify to change the way their voice is percieved. The most important one for gender perception is resonance, which is where your voice comes from. The next two are vocal weight and pitch. All three of these will be explained a bit more later on. Voice training is most commonly done by transfeminine people, as it is the only way to achieve a feminine voice aside from surgery. Transmasculine people less commonly also make use of voice training if they can't or are unable to take HRT, want to make adjustments to their voice, or want to take HRT and keep a feminine voice.

### Resonance

&emsp; Resonance is where the voice comes from. It is typically considered the most important aspect in the perception of gender in voice. Masculine voices typically resonate from the chest or lower throat, while feminine voices typically resonate from higher up. Resonance that is feminine is typically described as being bright or up, while masculine resonance is typically described as being dark or down.

### Vocial Weight

&emsp; Vocal weight is how much your voice "rumbles." Voices with high vocal weight are typically said to be gravelly, rough or heavy, while voices with low vocal weight are typically said to be flute-like, smooth, clear, or light. Masculine voices are typically considered heavy, while feminine voices are typically considered light.

### Pitch

&emsp; You probably already know what pitch is, but it is how low or high your voice is. Masculine voices have a lower pitch, while feminine voices have a higher pitch, and androgynous voices typically have a pitch in between those two ranges. If you are trying to feminize your voice, it is important that you do not use your falsetto. Your falsetto is the highest pitch you can reach, and it is not good to use as a normal speaking voice. You will know when you hit your falsetto, as there is typically a jump between it and your second highest pitch, and in addition to that you won't be able to raise your voice any higher.

### Voice Training Resources

&emsp; Voice training is something that will take a few months to get the hang of and potentially a few years to perfect. This makes it feel like a monumental task and it especially does the first few weeks when you're still getting the hang of it, but I encourage you to keep at it. Even though it is hard you totally can do it! Listed below are some resources for voice training. :3

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