build_with_docker.sh: Check if '--load' is required (fixes #74)

[andy5995]

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[andy5995]

I think a better way of implementing this would be, instead of checking the version, grep the output of docker buildx build --help and if '--load' is found, add the '--load' arg. What do you think?

I'll wait before making any changes.