feat: try to build with ABI3

[kemingy]

Describe the feature

• https://docs.python.org/3/c-api/stable.html

Currently, we build the wheel for each minor version of Python. If we use the limited C API, we only need to build one version for each platform.

The problem is:

The goal for the Limited API is to allow everything that is possible with the full C API, but possibly with a performance penalty.
https://docs.python.org/3/c-api/stable.html#limited-api-scope-and-performance

We need to verify the performance before applying this.

Why do you need this feature?

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Additional context

example

• config: https://github.com/kemingy/rule30/blob/main/python/Cargo.toml
• PyPI files: https://pypi.org/project/rule30py/0.2.0/#files