feat(csharp/src/Drivers/Apache): add connect and query timeout options

[birschick-bq]

Adds options for command and query timeout

Property	Description	Default
adbc.spark.connect_timeout_ms	Sets the timeout (in milliseconds) to open a new session. Values can be 0 (infinite) or greater than zero.	30000
adbc.apache.statement.query_timeout_s	Sets the maximum time (in seconds) for a query to complete. Values can be 0 (infinite) or greater than zero.	60

[birschick-bq]

Looks good to me. One small nit (that I should have done already).

[birschick-bq]

Added this reference as the ApacheThrift references version 4.3.0 which is marked as vulnerable.

[birschick-bq]

Note: because we can't pass the same cancellation token to ExecuteQueryAsync and the ReadNextBatchAsync, the runtime may exceed the query timeout

[birschick-bq]

Added issue and submitted PR to ensure rethrown exceptions include the original exception.
https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/THRIFT-5838
apache/thrift#3069

[birschick-bq]

Converted to draft because I'm trying to resolve failing tests

[davidhcoe]

Adds options for command and query timeout

Property Description Default
adbc.spark.connect_timeout_ms Sets the timeout (in milliseconds) to open a new session. Values can be -1 (infinite) or greater than zero. 30000
adbc.statement.query_timeout_s Sets the maximum time (in seconds) for a query to complete. Values can be -1 (infinite) or greater than zero. 60
TODO: Dynamically update HTTP request timeout when statement option is updated dynamically.

These have changed now.

[birschick-bq]

@CurtHagenlocher - A lot of churn on this PR - but I'd say it is ready for review, if you have the time. Thanks.